It's no different to the emotionally deranged phone call @silentbuddha got from his mother, accusing him of breaking his promise to "one of Christ's brother's" back when he was a nervous teenager by Freddy Franz's deathbed.
"Do they not see that this actually may reinforce our understanding that we were raised as children in a high-control religious group where we had to please our parents"?
My parents successfully conquered my child brain. Bravo. That's all my mother has to be proud of. Consider the images below. The degree of pride one would feel for the youths depicted is purely based on what side of the propagandistic organization/regime we are on. There's nothing universally heart-warming or beneficial about what these youths have been honed into.